4.8 out of 5 - Trusted by Introverts
Be an introvert who knows how to speak
27 Speaking Recipes in the Mind, Content and Delivery for Introverts
Insider tips to help you become an influential introvert speaker
✔ Speak up clearly in meetings without freezing
✔ Share your ideas confidently so people actually listen
✔ Be convincing and unforgettable
John Doorbar speaking at a Conference in Sweden:
How introverts can learn how to speak confidently
Why people ask John to help?
✔ John knows what it is like to be “s*i* scared” before a talk. He has helped over 350 introverts feel confident without acting
✔ 40+ years experience - Companies like these asked him back over multiple years to train their staff - Ernst and Young, Allianz, BASF, ABB, Lufthansa, ECB, Springer, Phillips
✔ John knows about how people behave - Oxford University Expert
Trusted by Introverts in Global Organisations
Academic and Professional Qualifications
Johanna’s Success Story
How Johanna Earned the Trust of 16 Colleagues Across Europe
"When I was promoted to lead 16 colleagues across Europe, I was excited—but also nervous."
Johanna wanted to make a strong first impression. She needed to build trust quickly, communicate clearly, and lead with confidence.
Together, we focused on three things:
✅ Building strong relationships
✅ Presenting with clarity and confidence
✅ Leading by example
Over 10 coaching sessions, we prepared for her first international conference, practised key presentations, and developed practical leadership skills.
Her dilemma?
She was going to have to speak to people in her new team 40 years older then she was
The result?
Her first team meeting was such a success that her boss described it as "A great success."
And what does Johanna say about the results of working with me?
"I now communicate with confidence."
"I know how to build business relationships quickly."
"I learned that great leaders show people what to do, rather than simply telling them.
What other people say about John’s Training
John Doorbar, M.A. University of Oxford, England, Speaking Coach to International Introverts, in business.
Learn these 3 Keys you need to unlock your natural skills as an introvert speaker:
Understand the Mind
How to use it to speak confidently
Use Great Content
To persuade international audiences
Deliver your Message
So that people never forget you
Learn with the 27 Speaking Recipes?
First, Let’s meet Ian
Ian isn't a real client.
He's a character I, (John) created. His name stands for Introverts Are Normal - IAN
Ian represents the thoughtful manager, engineer, scientist or specialist. He has excellent ideas but sometimes
doubts himself just before speaking.
People watch Ian struggle. Then they learn clear, powerful, simple ways to think and speak differently
They often smile and say to themselves…
"Oh, that's me."
Learning with Ian is Like Following a Recipe 🍕
Imagine you want to bake your favourite pizza.
You don't just throw everything into a bowl and hope for the best!
A great chef gives you a simple recipe to follow, one step at a time.
That's exactly how you'll learn with Ian and the 27 Speaking Recipes.
Every lesson follows the same easy recipe, so you always know what to do next.
1. Meet Ian
A typical introvert faces a real speaking challenge.
2. Spot the Mistakes
Watch Ian present. Can you see what's holding him back?
3. Discover the Fix
I'll explain the three ideas that change everything.
4. Watch the Difference
Ian tries again using the new techniques.
The change is immediate.
5. Build the Skill
Practise with simple exercises you'll actually enjoy.
6. Keep the Best Bits
Finish with three memorable ideas you can use the very next day.
A safe space for introverts.
Oxford University M.A. · 40+ Years Experience ·
Trusted by Allianz, BASF, ABB, Lufthansa, ECB, Springer Publishing, Phillips
Licensed Trainer — Ethical Influence
Taught at 18 Fortune 500 companies
European Union training — Strasbourg
Author of 3 books
International trainer — UK based
Behavioral science grounded
Licensed Trainer — Ethical Influence Taught at 18 Fortune 500 companies European Union training — Strasbourg Author of 3 books International trainer — UK based Behavioral science grounded
Meet John,
The introvert English guy who multinationals like Lufthansa,
Ernst and Young and John Deere ask to train their staff
Hi, I'm John Doorbar.
I'm an Oxford graduate, a communication coach and, perhaps most importantly, an introvert myself.
For years, I thought confidence belonged to other people. I knew my subject, but in important meetings my mind
became noisy, I overthought everything, and sometimes I stayed silent when I had something valuable to say.
If that sounds familiar, you're exactly the kind of person I love helping.
What changed?
After more than 40 years coaching professionals, I discovered something surprising.
Most introverts don't need more confidence.
They need a better understanding of how the mind works, a clear message, and simple speaking habits they can trust under pressure.
That's why my coaching combines behavioural science, ethical influence and practical presentation skills to help people speak calmly, clearly and naturally.
Meet Ian
Ian isn't a real client.
He's a character I created whose name stands for Introverts Are Normal - IAN
Ian represents the thoughtful manager, engineer, scientist or specialist who has excellent ideas but sometimes doubts himself just before speaking.
Ian feels that he is limited by his own thoughts. In the prison of his own mind.
When people watch Ian struggle—and then learn simple ways to think and speak differently—they often smile and say:
"That's me."
Ian reminds us that the problem isn't being introverted.
The problem is believing the stories we tell ourselves when the pressure is on.
Today
Today I help quiet professionals speak calmly, authentically and with confidence.
I've worked with people from organisations including Allianz, BASF, ABB and Lufthansa, and I'm a Licensed Trainer in Ethical Influence with Dr Robert Cialdini.
My goal is to help people escape the limitations - the prison of their mind.
But what matters most isn't the companies I've worked with.
It's hearing clients say:
"I finally spoke up."
"People listened."
"I can be myself and still have influence."
Free from the prison of your own mind
I want to help you too to feel like the guy in my drawing on the right - free to speak and have the skills and confidence to be yourself and deliver great talks.
“ I‘m free from the prison of my own mind.”
If that sounds like you...
I'd love to help.
No pressure.
Just a conversation.
→ Contact John
Before You Meet Ian (and John)
Speaking in front of people feels scary.
😟 Your mind goes blank.
😟 Your voice becomes quiet.
😟 You forget what you wanted to say.
Maybe this happens to you:
You stay quiet in meetings.
You have good ideas but don't say them.
Other people talk over you.
Your heart beats fast.
You feel nervous and start to sweat.
There is nothing wrong with you.
You don't need to become louder.
You just need to learn a simple system that works.
After Learning with Ian (and John)
Speaking feels much easier.
😊 Stay Calm
You know what to say.
😊 Speak Clearly
People understand your ideas.
😊 Feel Confident and be yourself
You don't have to pretend to be an extrovert.
Ian learned these skills. You can learn them too.
Your Simple Solution
27 Speaking Recipes
Precise guidelines
Stress-free
Easy to use
How it works
A simple, structured path
Understand
See what’s really happening when you speak
Apply
Use simple tools that work immediately
Improve
Build calm confidence
step-by-step
Choose your solution
3 options - To suit your situation
Below there are 3 ways to learn with the 27 recipes
Oxford M.A. | 40+ Years Experience | Trusted by Allianz, -BASF, ABB, Lufthansa
Every Programme Includes the 11-Unit Online Video Course: The First 7 Seconds (€297 Value Included Today)
Starter
Fast Confidence Boost
A practical fast-track for professionals who want momentum quickly.
€ 297
First 7 Seconds Course
Reduce nerves quickly
Confidence tools
Strong openings
Better posture & eye contact
Clear speaking structure
2 Influence Principles
BEST FOR
Beginners, quiet professionals,
first presentations.
RESULT
Start speaking with calm confidence.
10 people Max
START TODAY
Low risk first step
SCIENCE-BACKED METHODS
Proven psychology for lasting confidence.
Pro System ⭐
Full Transformation in 8 Weeks
Complete communication upgrade for serious growth.
€ 2,497
Everything in Starter
8-week roadmap
Confidence habit system
Executive presence
Persuasive presentations
Better storytelling
Stronger voice authority
4 Influence Principles
Priority support
Templates & tools
BEST FOR
Managers, experts, leaders, ambitious introverts.
RESULT
Become calm, respected, and influential.
8 people Max
APPLY NOW
Most clients choose this
BUILT FOR INTROVERTS
Practical, respectful, and effective.
Elite
Private High-Level Support
Elite coaching for leaders who want rapid transformation.
€ 4,970
Everything in Pro
Private 1:1 coaching
Bespoke strategy
Boardroom presentation support
High-stakes communication
Direct private access
Advanced influence psychology
Fast implementation
BEST FOR
Directors, founders, senior leaders, industry experts.
RESULT
Become the calm authority people trust instantly.
1 person
(Limited to only 6 people per year)
BOOK A PRIVATE CALL
Limited monthly spaces
REAL-WORLD RESULTS
Trusted by professionals worldwide.
MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
If you engage fully and apply the system, in the first 3 hours you will be more confident when you speak - or we give you your money back
In the worst case and if nothing changes…
You will stay silent in the moments that really matter.
Your ideas will not be heard.
New chances will pass by you — again and again…
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Why John's approach works for talented introvert professionals
| Feature | John Doorbar’s Programmes | Typical "confidence coaching" | Generic speaking course |
|---|---|---|---|
| Focus | Ethical influence structure | Mindset + motivation | Delivery + presentation skills |
| Result | Calm authority + clear scripts | Temporary hype | Improvement, but slower |
| Experience | Experience coaching elite executives | Mixed | Mixed |
| Ideal for introverts | ✓ Built for it | Often not | Sometimes |
| Model scripts included | ✓ Yes | Rarely | No |
| Material | Based on latest research | Basic tips | Simple reading on latest research |
| Behavioural Psychology | How the mind works | None | None |
Your voice becomes stronger today.
Calm. Clear. Confident.
One step at a time.
No pressure. Just a conversation.

